The uncertainty of after graduation…

The alarming fear that arouse after graduation of what really do we want to become in future,the pressure behind it ,the responsibilities which have fall before us ,we are no longer students no more sleepless nights ,no hard work ,but hard works we are venturing into the reality of the world the unending cycle of sleepless nights , no more table of contents to guide your move’s suddenly the world feels strangely quiet and wide .
welcome to graduation were after the The Gown Go Off Comes The Unknown ,the sign of educational achievement but also the end and beginning of it , the journey to self discovery that no one will tell you about most people,students have it already figured out but life after graduation is not only about finding a job but about finding oneself it’s a new kind of education they don’t teach in school a series of emotional rollercoasters .
How do we handle em?
Define what growth means to you ,we see our friends,course mates doing better than us flying in and out living the life we all dream and wish for ,like it or not you wish you were the one ,yes it’s okay to feel that way we all do but what does growth means to you by your definition of growth you reduce the social pressure on yourself and many times it happens that even by our own definition we still feel like we’re behind,
Like according to one of my best artists Santan Dave he said “look back don’t you think you are behind “ yes we are sometimes but I guess that’s where we are supposed to be getting ready for the battles ahead.

   Pause catch your breath it’s okay to do so than rushing into something you are not prepared for may sometimes have imaginable consequences you never expected ,reflect on what truly matters to you and not what the society requires from you.  Being prepared before doing something doesn’t require you to be perfect for you will never be.
Acquire skills and education yourself everyone will tell you everyday but what they refuse to tell you is to be consistent in a particular skill the world is very wide we want to explore every know almost everything ,walk through paths that are not set for us paths that we will never know, pick a skill that you will never get bored doing a skill that reflects who you are. And for you to truly understand this skill you must learn consistency, which is a a quiet flame that never fades , watering the dreams before they bloom .

The uncertainties that comes after grads don’t not fear them embrace them it’s something you will never escape it’s a sign that the universe wants you to explore , explore one at a time don’t rush the
process we all have different paths don’t be jack of all trades master of none. Like me ,many of us have more than 4 courses in udemy, coursera ,save later videos on YouTube wanting to learn everything all at once. Which most times cost mental unrest .

Brizzy writes…